look, ditch the 1 click, ditch the vm, ditch all that ****, ive nvr even used webman
u need to just ditch it all, and start over, following the tutorials and if ur on win7/2008 server then use toasty's win7 launcher, if you study the tutorials closely, its really easy, and wont take you any time at all to get it up and ready to start adding other things
i got mine up for the first time using those tuts in only an hour, and besides some bugs it ran fine, i could login and all, and again, all i did was follow the tutorials, didnt have to ask questions nor get help from anyone, and it was my first time even seeing the files at all.
just start over, keep an open mind, a positive attitude and dont let the little things get you clustered