I guess you don't know anything about programming and you just want your own private server, right? Then you should try this one:
It has big pictures and you can set it up within 5 minutes.
Oh and before asking for a 5017 Client go check Spirited's Topic about popular clients right here:
Ah and to be able to log into your server using your local ip adress you should use CID-Loader. You can find it right here:
Edit the CIDServer.dat with notepad and change the ip to yours. Then extract CIDLoader.exe and CIDServer.dat into your 5017 Client. Now run the CIDLoader.exe and you should be able to log in.