yea i think its the router but thats the problem my bro is lil ***** so i will try to install another version of XP i will reinstall the drivers also so anyone else who has a router and tried hosting the server on the non main pc of the router that dint get a problem ? btw thanks for the tips guys very very thanks
Edit: im gonna post a quick video so u guys can see why i get this problem
Edit2: here is the download link for the video

u guys can scan it if u guys want