Open co and log into your server.
Next, open command prompt ( start > run > 'cmd')
In the command prompt, type
netstat -n
you can add
-b if you have Service Pack 2, make it easier to get the address.
Anyway, that will list all connections from the computer that are active. The IP address you want should be connected to port
5816 on the remote address. Again, the -b argument will make it a whole lot easier.
Easier to use than netstat is TCPView, which can be found at

. Nice prog.