Here you,heres a guide what you should do to get an successfull private server:
1. LEARN TO CODE
2. Download an leaked source,hopefully a good one,study it,dont make a server out of it,just study study study!!!
3. Now try to code your own server,notice,your server,with YOUR source.
This way you wont fail or wont be flamed at...
My advice to you if you wont follow my guide : Dont have a server,go back to regular conquer.