Few Issues with Making Private server Please help

Ok So i have created the server. i download Worrlords files and am running them on VMware useing xp. i followed all Tuts and instructions and i finally get the game to acutly log in. i create my account and log into game. after a while i log out. i try to figure out how to use hamachi or anything else so that my 3 other comps in my house can connect and help me test the server.(if you could also help me with that it would be nice. i need to know what ips to change on my server side and on the other comps side.)when i tried to relog into the game at first will say can not connect to server at the login screen,then it will log me in and when i click my char(witch is in a firm stand up postion and the server names are invisible.)but when i click my char it goes to blk screen then says cannot connect to server. i would appriciate any help that you guys can give me in advance. thank you

Sounds like your share folders dont match up.

Ok thanks for the respond. now how do i fix that what should i just copy one share folder and overwrite the next one?

ok i went threw change all the ips to my hamachi (or at least all the .ini files in the server sided folers.)now when i start my msgserver it says [CRITICAL ERROR] SP _GUILD_IK_SET SUCCESS. and it also says Microsoft OLE DB provider for SQL Server :[DENETLIB][ConnectionOpen <Connect<>>.]SQL SERVER DOES NOT EXSIT OR ACCESS DENIED.
so im am kinda at a loss atm so any help would be helpful thank you

so i went back through and changed the ips to 127.0.0.1 and also copied the server sided share folder and put that in the client share folder. so now i can log in and shit. but my character is in a stiff postion the whole time. but this gives me proplems i cant have my 3 roomates test the server from there comps. please if someone could tell me what ini files i needa change for them to connect ethir threw hamachi or just threw the wireless router.

ok.... the .ini files have to connect through a static ip to make a traceroute i believe... so go to ipchicken.com and update them to that then your server might be public if your in a college set the ips to the hamachi ip... good luck mate and the crashing might be cause by bandwith constraints or a bad packet being sent by the share... like a monster drop that can't be processed or something of that nature good luck mate.