i got my server and my client running although when i try to run the game from my brother's PC it doesn't work. I gave him my client files and i put in the privileged ip addresses 192.168.1.1~255 so all ips and he is in that range
here is how I typed it in the boxes
[192][168][1][1][192][168][1][255]
when he tries to connect using the launcher or the loader(edx) it says server is undergoing inspection
btw my server is running on a virtual Pc on my computer and on regular pc (not the virtual one but still same machine) i can always run the launcher without the loader , connect and do whatever on the server.