Goodluck finding anything private here. I'd suggest to just scout the market and check for vouches and do your due research before settling for something that suits you.
PS:- Definitely ignore dms from anybody that claims to be undetected for "more than 6+ months here" although you said you're not dumb and only gonna entertain anybody that holds value - people here will often say polarizing stuff even when highly repped. So yeah round back to research and take the time to look where you should.
Goodluck & Stay safe!