Lol
This has been asked so many times it isnt even funny, every player and every owner has their own opinion, my players will tell you FR is the best, Acme's players will say Acme is the best and so on, at the end of the day it comes down to what you are looking for in a server, so you are only going to get someone elses opinion, the only way you will figure out what server YOU feel is the best is to try them all lol.
Every p-server has their good points and bad points, FR is no exception, i dont claim to have the best server i just have MY server. I dont feel we should be in competition with eachother here, i feel the only competition for us is TQ themselves.
My own personal opinion, FHEO was the best for me, had everything I personally was looking for in a pvt server.