Windows Memory Error + DirectX Crash (PLEASE HELP)

Hey ho,
Two weeks ago i'v re installed my computer. Before 1 week i re installed Battlefield 4 and i startet playing. Before i re installed my computer i only had some DirectX errors at Operation Locker. Now im getting DirectX errors at Operation Spind and Operation Metro. Now the worst thing, im getting a Windows error that notice me that the computer has not enough memory! It wants me to stop Battlefield 4. I'v never had the memory error before i re-installed my computer. I can play other games like DayZ, Company of Heroes, State of Decay, Minecraft (@6 GB) and Bad Company 2 without any errors.

What i'v already tried:

- Re-installed DirectX
- Repaire Visual Studio 2013
- Cleaned and re-installed Nvidia and Intel HD drivers
- Used a old version of Nvidia drivers
- Re-installed Windows 8 Intel chipset drivers and sata
- Different amounts of virtual memory
- Moved the virtual memory from sdd to hdd
- Checkdisc
- Re-installed Battlefield 4
- Checked memory usage and programms
- De-installed Avira AntiVir


My system:

- Intel i7-3610QM @ 2,30GHz - 3,30GHz boost
- 8,00 GB - 1600MHz
- 120 GB SSD
- 1 TB HDD
- Nvidia Geforce GT650M - 2 GB
- Asus N76VZ (Notebook)
- Windows 8.1 64x
- Avira AntiVir


My settings:

- 1600x900
- lowest settings except, texture quality - middle


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Now i noticed that im getting the memory error in Company of Heroes 2 and Titanfall Beta, too!

maybe close not needed services and processes that use too much memory

Quote:

Originally Posted by 大好き maybe close not needed services and processes that use too much memory

I'v already checked this... while playing battlefield 4 my memory usage is up to 2-3 GB. While the system is in idle mod its only about ~600 MB.



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Now i noticed that im getting the memory error in Company of Heroes 2 and Titanfall Beta, too!

Just saw u use W8, afaik w8 causes problems with titanfall, so maybe it causes problems on bf4 too, just google for it u may find something.

I'v already googel this problem for 1 week now...
I'v noticed that im getting the same error at company of heroes 2

I'v checked my both memory with memtest in dos, one of them died. I removed it and now im running 4 GB, but the problem its still the same!

Ok, i'v found the problem now! Now i need to know how to fix it.
It only happens when im running a game with another resolution than my desktop res.
Desktop -> 1920x1080 and Game -> 1600x900 the memory is getting fulled up linea... if i switch to the desktop it will be cleaned. If i run the game in windowed mode or @ 1920x1080 there will be no error.

Im using the latest nvidia driver and intel hd 4000 driver from windows update... i think the problem is @ the intel driver, but whats to do now?