[Help] Couple map problems

I'm having a few map problems and I need to be set straight. So far my 130 map (Genoa with Spirits) is not working right. So we figured maybe we're using the wrong map. We've tried 47 (which auto dcs you), 48 (works ok but with no mobs), 6x which is the instant dungeon, and a couple I can't even remember. I need some help figuring where I'm messing up at. Maybe a quick run thru on how to do it. Second problem is that I can link my East Ares and West Morte right just when you click it, bam, instant dc. I'm using Trane's (thank you alot lol) tuts for connecting so ik I have that right. Anyone think they could lend a helping hand for a moment?

Check if you have all the map files if you crash.

That was the first thing I checked. I even compared it to 2 other private servers. Exact same files, unless there is another folder I'm suppose to look in rather than the data > share > map, data > texture > minimap, and data > map. We have even tested to see if our map files are corrupted by taking another servers map files and putting it into our and the maps ended up getting fucked up.

So, any other ideas?