Why are all ppl. playing on Private Servers?
Play on the official Warrock server, so you will get real EXP and a real Account, who is worth more than others. And it's not that laggy than a private server.
If you want to run a dedicated server on a root, you should play other games, it will be more fun.
Back to topic:
Ask people (via PM) who already released an running elitewar server for help. Those you can find for example in this threads:
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