never played on a private server before need some help

hey all i wanna play on qonquer private server but the client isn't their beside i don't know how to connect to the private server ..ppl says ports ip's and i know none of them so any instructions would be apperciated ..
thx in adavnce

So you want to play qonquer?

Sorry, didn't understand your question fully.

yes dude i want to play qonquer but i guess i don't know how so i need some instructions