need help with server please

ok i have my server up and running have the correct clients and patches.
but i cant connect to the server through another pc. i keep getting error cant connect to game server or please try again later. i have gone through all the guides over and over again trying to see where i messed up. but i cant seem to find it i have all the ports on my routers set i have set up my acct through dyndns. im about to pull my hair out and that wouldnt be good seein as i have so little left from other occassions. so please help

try to repeat every step again and follow another guide maybe...or put the correct ip in the oem files.....

lol i have been doing the same thing for the last three days oems are good to go far as i know ip are set servers set, shows 1 person online when i try to log in but the computer just wont finish the connection and i even disable my fire wall to try and see if that was blocking it opened all ports on router to even try that.s just becoming a headache and im about to give up and try to figure out how to use hamachi

Man, first, u have tested your server in your machine, and he start up and u can log in?

Second, if are working, now u need configure the ip of your server, and the name on folders accserv, and gameserver. remember change the shell.dat.

thirt, configure the oem.ini, ip and name of server...

Four. disable your firewall's machine, and do a port forward in your modem...

another think, dont use dynamic ip on your machine, configure your network to static ip, and redirect the ports for you machine, if u doesnt do it, dont will work 100%.

Man, if u cant conect yet later all this...

Try do it with hamachi, :X