Errrmm.. Lot of people have their 'Own' Servers.. And.. I bet no one will 'DO everything for you' I'm suggesting you to search EPvP a bit, there's lot of guides out here, and with em, you can setup the server, VERY easy.
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Good Luck, anyway you can ask here the errors you have, but not that we have to do everything for you, just to help you and give you a hand and solve your problem with telling u what to do.