Don't feel bad, I've had my server running as a test server with a carefully selected group of ppl playing for prolly a month or so now, and Im still not completely ready to make it public.
It's almost there, but I still have a few small things to work on...nothing major thatll actually affect gameplay at all, but id rather have them done before going public. Then again, I am the only one actually working on stuff, other than my already appointed art team that does all our edits. Everyone else is either staff Ive already chosen or friends just playing to help us find bugs so I can fix them.
Good Luck with your server as well!!!!
Also, if ya need any help feel free to post here...theres many of us that Im sure are willing to help as much as we can.