Well out of ALL these I have tested I'd say:
Evo
Eternity
Trinity
Evo is dead. Was too crowded for me.
Eternity is DECENT, basically since I'm fully geared. If they will be really up 2morrow like they promised, and no rollback like they promised I'm staying. The only big mistake I saw (HAPPENED TO ME) is the 5+ days maint tht's supposed to last 12 hrs. if no rollbacks I can let it go.
Trinity - I like the serv, 54 UM war atm (and a 40hm first day of playing) but one of the fury GSs is not that good. She became bitchy for no reason and was rude. The rest of the staff (not including someone claiming to be GM he might be if he is hes a BAD GM he said I'm a noob for not knowing how to obtain the test speed amulet) is pretty nice, they ran a 1-15 PvP naked event. It took way too long, but we got 1-2 OP hammers each (lites 2 cuz they won). I guess they'll learn.
I would suggest Eternity when they get back up. I'll tell you if there's a rollback. If there is, I don't suggest em. We'll see.
Trinity is nice, not many players, not easy to get gears. More for the hardcore non lazy players.
Just my opinion.