I've noticed that you've got a huge load of excuses ready for everything. Don't try to cover up for your bad work. I'm going to say this one more time. I can tell that your server is bad since your website is bad. Don't start with "Dont judge a book by it's cover blabla". Well I'm sorry to say but MOST people judge it by the cover, if it doesn't appeal.. None is going to use it.
Start releasing things instead of making up excuses.
Maybe I'll change my mind in the future, it's your job to impress me but all things you've done so far make me dislike you and your server. Don't go running around and calling others their work garbage and shit if yours is not good either.
This is my opinion, if a moderator doesn't agree well feel free to discuss this with me in PM.