If your sure it isn't your firewall, then you have the incorect IP set up, if the server is local you can just put in 127.0.0.1 otherwise use ipconfig in command prompt to get you IP and set it in these locations
ShaiyaServer\PSM_Server\Config
ShaiyaServer\PSM_Client\Bin\Config
ShaiyaServer\PSM_Server\ShaiyaServerPatch\Config\G ame01
ShaiyaServer\PSM_Server\ShaiyaServerPatch\Config\S erverMain
ShaiyaServer\PSM_Server\Config
ShaiyaServer\PSM_Client\Bin\Config
ShaiyaServer\PSM_Server\ShaiyaServerPatch\Config\G ame01
ShaiyaServer\PSM_Server\ShaiyaServerPatch\Config\S erverMain