To bot on silkroad-R, you still need old silkroad on your pc, dont uninstall it, you need both.
Install both silkroad and silkroad-R, make sure everything works by login into game normally without any 3rd party program.
Copy PHMediaPatcher.exe into silkroad folder, patch the media.pk2 as usual. please note that, do this in old normal silkroad folder, not silkroad-R.
Run "Run Hackshield.bat"
Run silkroad.exe in silkroad folder
Press 'Start' from the silkroad launcher, dont login into game using this instance of silkroad, just leave it alone. this instance/process will be your HS server from this point.
Now start ibot with LS:5 shortcut, it should connected to HS server now.
Use edxSilkroadLoader5.exe to run silkroad-R and now u are ready to go.