1st key point: this game has a lvl cap difference, so all those 140+ players wont be able to help you lvl even if they want. You have to be wihtin lvl range or find people around ur lvl to grind with.
2nd key point: at lower lvls, u can try asking somone to get u aukra gears and they shud be good for you till you get yours e1.
3rd key point: try to lvl as fast as possible so u get within the 10+ range against other high lvl players. Best way to do this is some questing and grinding. Grinding at lower lvl is the fastest way to lvl. After u hit 80..start the quest from graveyard of pain..2-3 quest should grant you a lvl.
4th key point: keep on voting and save up up Wcoins. When you get to lvl 100+ u can use your points to buy Tower of wind keys and if u make a BZ .. or ask a high llv within 10 lvls of you, they will always join to help out. The heim u get in there will help you towards getting your E1 set and then u can solo TOWs.
hope this helps a bit, i am lvl 125, and whenever i am not afk in game, if ur within my range i can always run BZ with u for exp or if u get tow keys i can run them for you as well. My in game name is KIRA..drope me a chat bubble, i can help when i am not busy