i added :9988 and then i couldnt join, so i took it off and the other person cant join either, so i added my port and now it wont load past Verifying users, so i just deleted the port
check firewall and open up the ports used by the server..
then check the configfiles of your account,msgserver so its the hamachi ip and not 127.0.0.1 if that still dont work and your the only one that connect zip your eudemonsfolder and send to your friends
make sure u create users for them in the database as well