man... all on those server websites!
but i help you!
1. The oem is a file, it real name is oem.ini. You need it to connect to any private server.
Just not in Real Eudemons Online!
2. You can`t install Private Server's. You have to download the Patch of the Server you want, extract it in your Eudemons Folder and run the Patch.
3. What you mean with Server not found? Can you make a Screenshot or explain more?
Sry, but I think... The most ppl know how to connect
Click the Thx button!