I'll ***** myself out at the same time then
Classic style
More modern style
Most servers these days offer hit based or non gear reliant events for people who want the feel of a PVP server. The reason PVP servers don't exist is simple. There's no way to keep players interested in the game long enough for it to be a success. Even if you have dozens of events, people will get bored and quit faster than you can attract new players and they are notoriously hard to monetize fairly meaning there's no incentive for the developer to remain active.
In regards to my own servers -
classic offers a bunch of hit based duel options (standard, hitting refunds stamina, unlimited stamina) and over a dozen hit based pvp events.
Modern offers a different option. It still has the hit based events but it also has 'skill' tournaments where all classes and all skills work the same as always but your gear is all equalized and capped at a certain point. These might not be what you are interested in as you'd still need to level up and reborn (few hours/days of work total) but then opens up more than the traditional fb/ss dueling gameplay that the traditional events do.