[FIXED] You can close this now.
Alright, first you gotta find out what your localip is, so click start, run, cmd , and then once the cmd pops up type ipconfig (idk if this is what the idiots were trying to say, because probably none of them know how to type) and there should be a line that says 192.168.x.x
fill that into the server Config file in your server folder, and then as your server.dat put the same thing in there, now everyone can connect, including you.